10 Top Reasons to Use a Vibrator (Even If You're Married)

More than half of women and nearly half of men have used a vibrator as part of their sex play, according to a blog post by sex educator Cory Silverberg.  That's compared to only 1% of people way back in the 70's (but I'm guessing most people lied, using a vibrator back then would have been considered completely embarrassing, worse than having a bra strap show).

What is it about vibrators that make them so much fun?  Well, everyone has a different reason for using them.  It is interesting to note that a lot of couples that I see in my practice don't use vibrators, even though many fit the most common demographic according to Xandria (white, Christian, Republican women).  I find that many people fear that a vibrator will replace intimacy in the bedroom, but that's just not true.

If you're in the group that has never used a vibrator, or if you need some inspiration to dust off the one hidden in your bedroom drawer, here is some inspiration in my top 10 list:

1. Vibrators feel good.  Vibrators tickle the nerves and build great tension in the genitals, which feels fantastic when it is released.
2. They are efficient.  If a woman (or man, for that matter) feels a little too tired but still wants to have pleasure, a vibrator can help get the job done without much effort.
3. They help a woman understand her body.  Stimulation with a vibrator can help a woman figure out just how much stimulation and where she needs it to have a good orgasm.  Check out this little finger model by Trojan.
4. Different types can help someone explore all sorts of orgasm.  There are vibrators for clitoral, G-spot, and anal play.
5. Vibrators are fun.  They come in literally all different colors, shapes, and sizes.
6. Vibrators can help a man explore his genitals, too. 

A man can use a vibrator on the underside of his penis to help him become erect or to have orgasm.

Vibrators can spice things up.  It can be fun to watch your partner use a vibrator or have your partner control how the vibrator is used on you.

Vibrators add more intense stimulation that some people either like or need in order to have orgasm.

Curiosity is another good reason to try a vibrator.  Why not?

A vibrator can make intercourse more fun.  With a man from behind position, a woman can easily use a vibrator on her clitoris.  Or try one of the new vibrating rings, worn on a man's penis and designed for mutual pleasure.

Lastly, neither partner should feel threatened by the desire to bring a toy into bed.  It's just that--a toy--and it will never replace the warmth of a close, caring relationship.  But, if you're single, it's a pretty damn good second!

Comments

[Inferno]

Vibrators during couples play is awesome sometimes.... ads some great sensations.